After the shocking message, Chris began connecting the dots and found a picture of Jane’s mother and his father.
“I was like well that’s my mom — and that’s my mom feeding your dad coconuts,” Jane told him.
To finally clear things up, the two took another DNA test and ultimately learned that they are siblings.
Jane, who now lives in Washington D.C., expressed relief that she actually had a father.
“It kind of validated me as having a father. He did exist. Even though he didn’t know I existed, I know he actually existed and he is real,” she said.
“I’ve had this cross for a very long time — there’s a little girl on it and she’s just there praying. Even though I’m 46 years old I always see this little girl in me and I see that cross and the little girl praying so hard for something and I always like that for some reason and every time I think of that I know what I’ve always prayed so hard for is figuring out who my dad is. So I’m leaving that with him and putting that little girl to rest.”
Jane eventually visited Chris and his family this month. The siblings also went to their father’s burial site together.
For now, Jane plans to spend more time with the Livesays and get to know them better.
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