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Indonesian Man Makes a Living By Giving Foreign Women the Love They Deserve

Women from different parts of the world have been visiting Bali, Indonesia for a memorable experience with an Indonesian Casanova known as the “Bali Boyfriend.”

Steve, as he would like to be called, has a unique approach to the male escort gig which has become a common occupation for young guys living on the popular Indonesian island.

Just like a real boyfriend, Steve would sometimes take his client on a romantic dinner, spend time gazing at the stars while sharing stories or share a stroll on the beach while holding hands as the sun goes down, provides his clients with more than just a romantic getaway. 

According to the 25-year-old, who revealed he’s a mixed-race Chinese, Japanese and Balinese who was raised abroad, says it’s how he treats his ladies that makes him more than just an escort.

“Most of my clients actually want to feel more appreciated, endorsed, listened to, pampered and better treated,” Steve told NextShark.

He revealed that his clients usually range between the ages of 35 to 40 years old, and come from Europe, Australia, and neighboring states Japan, and Korea.

“My services are actually based on the client’s need. Each client has their own different need, for example, they just want to be accompanied to work functions, weddings, dinners, a movie date, or just enjoy some time together. While for some others, they desire many intimate moments.”

“Sometimes there are some married couples where the husbands genuinely asked me to take care and pamper their mistress during their stay on the island.”

There are some requests however that he said can’t be fulfilled. “I’m not interested in weird practices, such as anal stimulation, bondage, sadomasochism, etc,” he said.

Asked whether being a “Bali Boyfriend” is a hobby or a business, he said that “it’s a way of enjoying life.”

In fact, Steve doesn’t even have an hourly rate and charges almost nothing at all. He does, however, expect the women to pay for all the date expenses, including taxi fares, accommodation, and dinner dates. If the ladies decide to give him something extra, then he considers it a bonus.

He’s reportedly so good that some women even try to push him into a legitimate relationship, which he is forced to decline.

“Yes I do have some. But we agreed that ‘anything happens in Bali, stays in Bali.'”

On his website, Steve wrote that he became an escort because he wanted to “live his dreams and not only dream about them.”

Being a Bali boyfriend, naturally, requires some expertise in handling women, but Steve admits that he was not that suave before he launched the service.

“Well, I have to admit, I was a really shy guy. I didn’t have any courage to talk to women before. But as time went by, I learned to face my fear and began to gain more confidence. It’s hard at first, it’s really a long process.”

He then added:

Being a man isn’t always about how big your muscles are or how thick your wallet is, but it’s more important on how you react to life, how you handle your responsibilities, how you treat others, especially how you treat your woman — with respect and genuine compassion.

“My good friend used to say this: ‘Learn on how to wipe tears from your woman’s eyes, or another man will do it better.'”

Steve said he started the Bali Boyfriends service with two friends a couple of years ago, but now his friends have settled with their own families and he’s doing the gig by himself.

“Some men were also trying to apply for the Bali boyfriend vacancy. But to be honest, it’s really difficult to keep the trust and secrecy of our clients. Those men who want to apply were actually only thinking of earning more money or to get laid as much as they can, but they failed to realize that they also have the responsibility to fulfill the client’s necessities and to keep their secrecy.”


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